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Second Trimester - Advice For Expectant Fathers
Advice for Expectant Fathers
Being a good father begins with being there for the mother of your child.
Ways you can help:
- Take her to prenatal appointments.
- Go to childbirth classes with her.
- Get her ice cream and pickles at 2:00 am.
- Tie her shoes when she can no longer see her feet.
- Tell her how beautiful she is.
- Rub her back or feet when they hurt.
- Hold her hand during contractions.
- Do the grocery shopping and fix dinner.
- Help with the household chores.
- Be there to witness the birth of your child.
- Let her know how honored you are to be the father of her child.
The love and respect that you give to your child's mother reflects the same love and respect
that you will give your child.
Partners for a Healthy Baby: Home Visiting Curriculum for Expectant Families © 1999 Florida State University Center for Prevention and Early Intervention Policy
How Can I Be a Great Dad?
- Be Adaptable
- Rearrange your schedule to take your partner or baby to important appointments
- Figure out a way to get to work or school if your usual ride falls through.
- Have a back-up plan in case the sitter can't help the baby.
- Be Dependable
- If you say you're going to do something, always do it. if you cannot, call to explain.
- Pick up your partner or baby at the agreed on time.
- Be Safety Conscious
- Anticipate hazards and steer your baby clear of them.
- Control your own behavior so baby is never in danger.
- Always put your baby in the car seat and use your own seat belt.
- Be a Provider for Your Family
- Accept the role of father, even if you did not expect it.
- Find employment earning legal wages that allow you to suport your family.
- If you lose your job, go out and find a new one.
- Do your share of work with the children and around the house.
Partners for a Healthy Baby: Home Visiting Curriculum for Expectant Families
©1999 Florida State University Center for Prevention and Early Intervention Policy
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